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If you\u2019ve already started taking Baby<\/span> on play dates, you may have already noticed a truth that takes some parents off-guard. Babies, even babies who are friendly, sweet, and grow up in polite, supportive homes, are not natural sharers, and don\u2019t start out playing nicely with other children. Parents tend to be embarrassed when their children start going around tearing toys from other babies\u2019 hands, but the truth is that until children are around 3 to 5 years old, they may have trouble understanding why taking something away from another child isn’t nice. However, with help from the example of the adults in their lives, they may be able to start modeling turn-taking sooner.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Stages of development, stages of play<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Before they start worrying about whether or not their children can play nicely with others, many parents find themselves concerned that their babies don\u2019t want to play with others at all. It\u2019s totally normal for babies who are put near each other to play completely separately beside each other. And if they do interact, it\u2019s generally to grab each other\u2019s toys, or to climb over each other without any consideration for what watching adults might think of as \u2018personal space.\u2019<\/p>\n

As Baby<\/span> grows past their<\/span> first year and into their<\/span> second, they will<\/span> start to be more aware of the other children they is<\/span> playing near. This stage is called parallel play, and will still mostly involve playing their<\/span> own games in the general vicinity of other children, but they will<\/span> pay a lot more attention to what those other children are doing. As they gets<\/span> older still, at around three or four, they<\/span> and their<\/span> peers are more likely to start playing together, though not in a cooperative way. By four to five though, they will<\/span> have reached the point of being more ready to play in a way you\u2019ll recognize – working together, sharing, and building relationships.<\/p>\n

Learning about turn-taking<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Baby<\/span> may not be ready to do much spontaneous sharing with their<\/span> peers, though they could<\/span> also surprise you. Some studies, including a 2010 study by the Harvard University Department of Psychology, suggest that babies and toddlers might have a much greater sense of fairness and empathy than current common wisdom says. Even if they isn\u2019t<\/span> quite ready to start sharing on their<\/span> own, though, they can<\/span> still start learning about turn-taking, fairness, and politeness from you now. In fact, they probably already has<\/span>.<\/p>\n

Baby<\/span> already sees you modeling sharing and turn taking when you\u2019re waiting in line at the store, taking turns with your partner to do certain household chores, or when passing a ball back and forth with Baby<\/span>. When you start describing these actions as \u2018sharing\u2019 or \u2018taking turns\u2019 out loud to Baby<\/span>, they can<\/span> start to match the words up with ideas, so that when you ask them<\/span> to share their<\/span> crayons, or give their<\/span> cousin a turn with the ball, they will<\/span> start to have an idea of what you mean, And you never know – they may<\/span> even do it.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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