{"id":10380,"date":"2021-02-22T09:18:40","date_gmt":"2021-02-22T14:18:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp.oviahealth.com\/guide\/10380\/preparing-partner-for-delivery\/"},"modified":"2025-01-10T10:42:17","modified_gmt":"2025-01-10T15:42:17","slug":"preparing-partner-for-delivery","status":"publish","type":"article","link":"https:\/\/www.oviahealth.com\/guide\/10380\/preparing-partner-for-delivery\/","title":{"rendered":"Preparing your partner for delivery"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Preparing your partner for delivery<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Depending on whether your partner prepares for things with research, or if they&#8217;re more of the &#8220;wing it&#8221; type, they may or may not already have an idea of what to expect from your labor &#8211; and if they&#8217;re the queasy type, &#8220;winging it&#8221; might not be the way to go. 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Bring your partner along for a crash course, and you might learn some new things too!<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Talk to them about the signs of early labor:<\/strong>\u00a0Water breaking, lower back pain, contractions and releasing of the mucus plug all indicate that labor is approaching.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.oviahealth.com\/guide\/10340\/packing-a-hospital-bag\">Make sure you have the hospital bag handy!<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Know how to time contractions:<\/strong>\u00a0While you\u2019re busy coping with pain and discomfort of early labor, have your partner watch the clock and evaluate the time from the beginning of one contraction to the beginning of the next, in addition to the duration of each contraction.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Know when to go to the hospital:<\/strong>\u00a0If the frequency of contractions is 5 minutes or less and the duration of each contraction is 30 seconds or more, it\u2019s time to hit the road! 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