Mental health awareness, conditions, and treatments https://www.oviahealth.com/blog/fertility-cycle-tracker/mental-health/ Digital health personalized for every family journey Mon, 29 Sep 2025 20:59:57 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.3 Sometimes, support is necessary to deal with mental health issues https://www.oviahealth.com/guide/317360/sometimes-support-is-necessary-to-deal-with-mental-health-issues/ Wed, 16 Oct 2024 13:27:12 +0000 https://www.oviahealth.com/?post_type=article&p=317360 Human beings may not run in packs like wolves, but in one way, we have a lot in common with the wilder cousin of (wo)man’s best friend – we’re social animals, and we can find strength in turning to each other, even during periods of time when reaching out to people feels harder than usual. Social support is an important part of strong mental health.

How utilize mental health support

Having a support system in place can be a great way to make sure you’re ready for the inevitable ups and downs of life.

It doesn’t have to look like what you expect

Is there someone in your life you would feel comfortable sharing your struggles with? It doesn’t have to be the person you might feel you’re expected to turn to. Maybe the person who usually falls into the best friend category for you is a little high-strung, and opening up the question of mental health support with that person feels harder than not asking for help at all right now. That’s okay, and it doesn’t mean that person isn’t important to you. There may be someone else in your life who is a better listener, or someone who has more time for you. Maybe it’s a casual friend that can help you the most right now. You can try to turn that casual friendship into a more serious one by opening up, and sometimes this is a great opportunity.

Get specific

Asking for help is hard, and getting too specific about what kind of help you need can feel even harder, but even the people in your life who know you best can’t read your mind. If you’re having a hard time, and thinking you’ll do better reaching out and asking for help, sitting down and making a short list of exactly what might help you out – anything from a more general “please don’t ask me about,” a certain subject, “I’ll tell you when I’m ready,” to the more specific, “I need to take a break from cooking at night until things quiet down at work” – can help whoever it is you’re asking for help figure out the best way to support you.

Give a little to get a little

The strongest support system is one that’s mutually supportive. This can be tricky in moments when you’re the person who needs help, but it’s important to remember that by sharing vulnerability, you are offering friends, family, and others the chance to feel more open to sharing their own vulnerabilities or insecurities. Maybe you have that one friend who acts like a superhero, and always seems to be completely on top of things, even when their life is full of challenges and changes. It can be hard to feel comfortable sharing when you’re having trouble with a friend like that – but if you hide it every time you’re having trouble, they may feel the same way about you.

Asking for help can feel selfish, but everyone needs help at some point. If you make a point of reminding the people in your life that you’re committed to being there for them in the best way you can when it’s their turn, you’re offering the chance to deepen your relationship. Actively listening to what’s going on in the lives of the people in your support network, and doing your best to offer the kind of support they need isn’t just offering that chance, it’s taking an active part in maintaining and developing that relationship.

Think outside the box

Your support system doesn’t have to just consist of people you already know. For one thing, depending on why or how you’re starting to feel overwhelmed, talking to a therapist or looking for a support group can be a great place to get started, especially if you’re not sure how to bring the subject up with the people in your life already. Taking a step like this can make whatever you’re coping with feel more real – and sometimes that’s exactly what you need, as a reminder that your feelings are valid.

You also don’t need to talk to everyone in your life about everything that’s going on in your life. If opening up a big conversation about how you’re feeling seems out of reach, try just asking for help in a simple way. A friend may be willing to help you out if you ask them to carpool to get your toddler to dance class. Your sister may be perfectly happy to take the reins on planning the next family event.

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Managing depression in everyday life: Helpful routines https://www.oviahealth.com/guide/317359/managing-depression-in-everyday-life-helpful-routines/ Wed, 16 Oct 2024 13:25:33 +0000 https://www.oviahealth.com/?post_type=article&p=317359 Before moving into the list of different self-care strategies that can help with coping with depression, there’s an important note about practically applying strategies. When it comes to depression, different strategies are going to work for different people, and it may take many tries to figure out a self-help routine that makes a meaningful difference for you. While you’re figuring out which strategies do or don’t work for you, make a point to speak kindly to yourself. Giving yourself the benefit of the doubt can help you keep from burning out as you move through the process of figuring out what works for you.

Practice these daily routines to help with managing depression

Sometimes, it’s easy to be harder on yourself than you’d ever allow or want yourself to be with someone else, especially when you’re dealing with depression. When you feel like this, picking some of the people in your life who you love, and who love you, and trying to talk to yourself the way you’d want someone to talk to those people if they were having a hard time can be a good frame for speaking generously to yourself. Like “fake it till you make it,” the way people speak to themselves inside their heads can have a huge impact of the way they think about themselves, and the way they feel, and can easily turn into feedback loops of bad feelings. Making a point to speak to yourself kindly can help to pull you out of the loop of speaking unkindly to yourself in a way that you internalize and feel worse because of.

Some suggestions for dealing with depression – or even most of them – can feel too simple to make much difference, or so often-repeated that it can feel like they can’t possibly make a difference. It’s true that no single one of these strategies may bring an end to depression, but finding the combination that works for you, in conjunction with the type of treatment that works best with your body chemistry and lifestyle, can make a big difference in helping you start to feel better.

Get it out there

Writing in a journal can offer an outlet for getting emotions out without opening them to any judgement, and can give you a way to keep track of your thoughts and notice any patterns in them. For example, do certain thought-patterns seem to go along with more severe depressive symptoms? That’s good information to have, and so is any strategy you might notices for steering your thoughts in other directions.

For endorphins’ sake

Getting into a regular exercise schedule is one of the most common pieces of advice when it comes to managing depression, and in turn, it’s one of the most dismissed pieces of advice. It’s true that exercise isn’t a magic bullet for depression, but getting outside and moving around on a regular basis has a whole host of benefits that can contribute to starting to feeling better. Between the sun, the change of scenery, the endorphins, and the fresh air, anything from a walk around the block to training for a marathon can be a healthy part of managing depression.

Treatment

Depression is a medical condition, but there’s a lot of stigma around it. Some may mistakenly characterize it as a personal problem, and to be resistant to seeking out treatment from professionals. If depression is negatively affecting your quality of life, seek help. Medication, psychotherapy, or some combination of the two, can have a huge positive impact on your life. Just like with these informal strategies, finding the treatment plan that works well for you can take some trial and error, and figuring out how to be patient with yourself and your medical team will be an important part of the process.

Setting up a pattern

Having a strong routine in your life  can help you demonstrate to yourself what you’re capable of, especially when you’re having an especially hard time. It can help to keep self-care tasks from slipping during difficult episodes, and when depression does become severe enough to interfere with routines, having those routines set up to begin as a control can show how much is changing.

General physical health

A lack of physical health doesn’t cause depression, but it can certainly contribute to it. Making sure to eat a balanced diet, get enough sleep (but notice if you find yourself sleeping more and more often), avoiding alcohol and street drugs can help keep you in your best shape possible to combat depression.

Reach out

Often, during periods of strong depression, spending time with people can be one of the early things that gets cut out. Isolating yourself can create a feedback loop of bad feelings, though, whereas spending time with someone, even if the sound of that feels exhausting, can be a way to get out of your own head a bit. Making a point to reach out to people who feel restful or helpful to you during this time, instead of the people who may ask more from your energy reserves, can help to make social experiences during periods of depression more meaningful and positive.

Fake it till you make it

Sometimes, especially during a spell of depression, putting on a can-do attitude – even if it’s not how you feel – is a great way to get through a difficult or challenging day, from a huge family gathering to coordinating with an electrician or landlord over an unexpected wiring problem in your house, to a normal day of work at a time when you just don’t think you can do it. One of the reasons faking it till you make it works is that putting on an attitude can help to infect you with some of the feelings you’re putting on, but that benefit also comes with a caution. It’s also key for you to know and understand how you’re really feeling. Denial about depression can mean putting off making the changes that can help you feel better.

Other things to consider

Depression can make even the simplest tasks feel more challenging, and managing changes to your life, routine, and comfort zone when you’re experiencing depression can feel like an especially dangerous game. Making changes can help you feel out the shifts in your routine that can better support your changes in mood, attitude, and mental health, though. Dealing with depression means that you may be able to benefit from a certain amount of extra support, but by making changes in your own life, some of that support can come directly from you.

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At what point should I call the doctor about depression? https://www.oviahealth.com/guide/317355/at-what-point-should-i-call-the-doctor-about-depression/ Wed, 16 Oct 2024 13:22:53 +0000 https://www.oviahealth.com/?post_type=article&p=317355 When it comes to mood disorders like depression, one of the many significant challenges is finding the line between healthy variations in moods and attitudes.

Signs of depression and when to talk to a doctor about it

Most people experience majority of the symptoms of depression at some point in their lives, to one degree or another, and it can be hard to tell which moods and feelings are symptoms of disorders which require treatment. For this reason, many people who do have depression or other mood disorders are diagnosed many years after noticing symptoms, or are never diagnosed or treated at all.

Watch out for these symptoms and signs of depression

There are a wide range of symptoms of depression, and some of them are physical, which can make it easier for some people to figure out how and when to reach out and ask for help. Both physical and emotional symptoms may be signs of depression if they last for two weeks or longer. Physical symptoms of depression include:

  • Changes in sleep, whether that’s sleeping more often than usual, or insomnia
  • A loss of appetite, or increased craving for food, causing either over- or under-eating
  • A loss of sex drive
  • Tiredness or lack of energy
  • Aches and pains or headaches with no obvious cause

The emotional effects of depression can vary widely, from a consistent level of negative feelings all the way to feeling suicidal or hopeless. Emotional symptoms of depression can include:

  • Feelings of sadness, hopelessness or feeling on the edge of tears
  • Anger, irritability, or frustration, especially anger or frustration that feels excessive to events
  • A loss of interest or pleasure in favorite things or interests
  • Slowed thoughts, speaking and movements
  • Agitation, twitchiness or restlessness
  • Feelings of guilt, inability to let go of past mistakes or blame
  • Thoughts of death or suicide

Thoughts of suicide should be treated as a medical emergency and you should go to your local emergency room right away.

Depression can be caused and set off by different things at different times. Sometimes depression is triggered  more by life events and stressors. Other times, it’s more determined by brain chemistry, regardless of life and stressors. Often, it’s some combination of the two. In any case, when depression affects your life, reaching out to a healthcare provider  for treatment and support is one of the best ways to start to work towards recovery.

Talking to your provider

Depression is a serious condition, and not something that one snaps out of by force of will. The earlier treatment starts, the faster and more effectively one can begin to start feeling better.

Primary care providers tend to be the first line of defense against depression. Starting the conversation about your mental health with the healthcare provider you’re the most comfortable with is never a bad idea, but it’s also good to remember that most PCPs don’t specialize in mental health treatment, and mental health providers like psychiatrists can be fantastic resources as you start to figure out what your needs around treatment are.

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The power of affirmations https://www.oviahealth.com/guide/259872/the-power-of-affirmations/ Fri, 07 Jan 2022 21:06:50 +0000 https://www.oviahealth.com/?post_type=article&p=259872 An interview with Leasa Wright

Leasa Wright is a prenatal yoga instructor and a certified sound therapy practitioner. She joined Ovia’s Stressless Fest in 2021 to lead the Ovia community through a series of affirmations. We brought her back today to talk a bit more about affirmations and to explain the impact that an affirmation practice can have, particularly for those who are TTC. 

Leasa began an affirmation practice – alongside her regular breath work and yoga – after suffering from a traumatic brain injury and experiencing loss. An affirmation practice can be helpful for anyone who is going through a challenging time or looking to combat the negative self-talk that can creep up on all of us.

By taking yourself through a series of affirmations (and accepting that you may or may not believe as you say them aloud), you can slowly alter your perspective, melt stress away, and change the conversations you’re having with yourself. “This area of our lives is so untapped,” says Leasa. 

Of course, changing your perspective won’t happen overnight and a habit takes time to form, but as Leasa reminds us, this is a gentle place to start. 

How would you describe an affirmation? Can you give us some examples?

Affirmations are positive statements which you consciously choose to replace negative inner scripts with something more useful, creative, and open. An affirmation is a positive statement that can help you challenge and overcome negative thoughts. 

Your affirmation will be personal to you, and specific to what you want to achieve or change. Here are some examples:

  • I believe that life is working out for me. I am open to good things happening to me.
  • My happy thoughts help create my healthy body 
  • I am taking care of my body and mind in order to welcome a baby.
  • My body is designed to conceive.
  • Patience and care help my body prepare for pregnancy.
  • I am open to the greatness and power that comes from being true to myself. I welcome miracles into my life now. I welcome goodness, I welcome in love.
  • My natural state is one of ease, grace, love, radiance and prosperity.
  • Life is working out perfectly for me. Everything around me is happening for me. Good things are always happening to me.
  • I follow my dreams because I know I am meant to. I know I am worthy of my dreams. My dreams are coming true.

What are the benefits of speaking positive affirmations out loud?

The power of affirmations lies in repeating them out loud, to yourself regularly. It’s useful to recite your affirmations several times a day (maybe schedule them to pop up in your notifications or write them on notes around the house). You also need to repeat your affirmations as soon as you engage in the negative thought or behavior that you want to overcome. The combination of speaking and hearing at the same time helps to solidify the impact of the affirmation.

Especially throughout your fertility journey, it’s so important to be gentle with yourself. These affirmations are one way to practice self love.

Why is the repetition of an affirmation so powerful?

Many of us do repetitive exercises to improve our physical health, and affirmations are like exercises for our mind and our outlook on life. These positive mental repetitions can reprogram our thinking patterns so that, over time, we begin to think – and act – differently.

Affirmations can be repeated 3-5 times daily to reinforce the positive belief. Writing your affirmations down in a journal and practicing them in the mirror is a good method for making them more powerful and effective

Who might benefit from practicing positive affirmations? 

Affirmations can lower anxiety and make it easier to sleep and eat. They can help to lower stress hormones in the body. All of this is important for conception. Using positive affirmations can also help alleviate fears and prepare the mind for pregnancy.

Where should people start?

Start by creating new positive statements for yourself.

  1. First analyze the thoughts or behaviors that you’d like to change in your own life, then write down 3 affirmations for yourself.
  2. Next, write down the time of day that you will commit to practicing your affirmations.
  3. Repeat your affirmations at least three times daily — first thing in the morning, midday, and just before you go to sleep. Regular repetition will gently return your focus to manifesting the life you want. 

How can people expect to feel after trying this practice? 

Affirmations help to engrave feelings of calm and hope as part of a self-care routine. They are powerful tools to influence changes in your moods, feelings, thoughts, and habits, but they require practice to be effective.

If integrating affirmations into your day doesn’t feel like the right fit for you. Even just paying attention to the ways in which you speak to yourself, and practicing positive self-talk can make a world of difference in how you see yourself and how you envision your future. 

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Disordered eating and fertility: Questions to ask yourself https://www.oviahealth.com/guide/259636/disordered-eating-and-fertility/ Wed, 29 Dec 2021 23:28:42 +0000 https://www.oviahealth.com/?post_type=article&p=259636

Trying to get pregnant can bring up a lot of feelings. You might be excited, scared, nervous, uncertain, or a combination. And, if you’re currently struggling with or recovering from an eating disorder or have experienced one in the past, the  challenges of this journey may feel magnified. This is completely understandable. The best thing you can do is find a supportive, trustworthy care team to help guide you through. 

Next, try asking yourself some of the following questions. Your answers will likely vary depending on the day, your mood, and/or any other life events that arise that’s okay. The idea is to keep exploring until you find something that feels right for you.

What are the facts?

While eating disorders negatively affect fertility, having one won’t necessarily prevent you from getting pregnant. So being aware that you can still get pregnant is important when considering the timing of TTC. It’s in your best interest (and your future baby’s best interest) to get treatment for any eating disorder before becoming pregnant. A trusted health professional can help you pinpoint your greatest challenges and come up with a plan to support you as you prepare to TTC. Some of the topics you and your provider may discuss include mental health, body image, nutrition, and exercise.

What do I need?

Oftentimes people who have experienced disordered eating have certain triggers. These can be emotional, mental, and/or physical. You may already know what these triggers look like for you. If you don’t, it can be useful to identify them. Then you can consider what’s helped you avoid being triggered or cope with triggers in the past. You might also consider activities that you’ve found comforting and soothing. If nothing’s coming to mind, check out Ovia’s Daily Self-Care Checklist in your app. Some ideas might include finding ways to recharge and meditating.

Who can help me?

Because TTC can be triggering for those who have or had eating disorders, it’s especially useful to rally a support network that can help you along the way. This group can consist of anybody who makes you feel safe and comfortable when expressing your thoughts, fears, and concerns. It’s also important to involve the professionals if you’re still on the path to recovery. Some care team members might include a trusted dietitian, therapist and physician

What’s the bottom line on disordered eating and fertility?

Try to remember that obstacles related to disordered eating and your fertility aren’t your fault. But getting help is imperative to your recovery and health. Also remind yourself that everybody is different, requires unique care, and can likely move through these challenges with support. 

Reviewed by the Ovia Health Clinical Team


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Your menstrual cycle and your hormones https://www.oviahealth.com/guide/250364/your-menstrual-cycle-and-your-hormones/ Mon, 30 Aug 2021 21:44:09 +0000 https://www.oviahealth.com/?post_type=article&p=250364 Ovia Fertility helps you track your unique cycle and understand your body better. If you don’t have the Ovia Fertility and Cycle Tracker app, you can download it here


Hormones play an important role in the three phases of your menstrual cycle: the follicular, ovulatory, and luteal phases. Learn more about the menstrual cycle and your hormones here!

How do hormones impact the way you feel?

Throughout your cycle — which can last between 25 to 35 days — hormones such as estrogen, progesterone, and luteinizing hormone can affect how you feel, the foods you crave, your sleep patterns, and more. Understanding how hormones fluctuate throughout your cycle can give you a better sense of what to expect during each phase.

Learn more about your menstrual cycle and hormones.

Learn more about the hormones in the menstrual cycle

Estrogen

During the follicular and menstruation phases, estrogen plays a dominant role. Estrogen levels will decrease as you begin menstruating, which can leave you feeling fatigued. When your period ends, estrogen will increase and you’ll likely regain your energy. As the follicular phase continues until ovulation, estrogen levels increase and you might notice glowing skin. Estrogen levels peak right before ovulation, which is also your fertile window for pregnancy. If an egg isn’t fertilized, estrogen levels will drop while progesterone increases. 

Progesterone

During the luteal and ovulation phases, progesterone plays a dominant role. Progesterone levels rise during the second half of your menstrual cycle (the luteal phase) as the egg prepares for a possible pregnancy. If you become pregnant, progesterone levels will continue to rise to grow and thicken the uterine lining for a developing baby. If you don’t, progesterone will dip, your uterine lining will shed, and you’ll start bleeding. Rising levels of progesterone are also responsible for PMS symptoms.

Follicular Stimulating Hormone

Follicular Stimulating Hormone (FSH) rises during menstruation and follicular phase and hits its peak during ovulation. FSH stimulates the growth of follicles in the ovary. One of these follicles will become an egg that will be released during ovulation. Though there aren’t many main symptoms from FSH that you may feel, it is an essential component of the menstrual cycle. 

Luteinizing Hormone

Luteinizing hormone (LH) remains low throughout the menstrual cycle with the exception of the LH surge around mid-cycle which triggers ovulation. You may notice ovulation pain, or mittelschmerz, due to the LH surge. After ovulation, LH helps to create the corpus luteum that releases progesterone which helps to maintain a potential pregnancy if the egg is fertilized. 

Testosterone

Testosterone affects your skin, hair, and other physical features. A decrease in testosterone can lower your sex drive. An increase in testosterone can suppress your normal menstruation and ovulation. It can also be an indicator for polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), a common hormonal disorder in women. Testosterone increases during the luteal phase and peaks during ovulation, which can make you feel more energized. 

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How the menstrual cycle impacts your mood https://www.oviahealth.com/guide/250187/mood-swings-and-the-menstrual-cycle/ Mon, 30 Aug 2021 21:42:48 +0000 https://www.oviahealth.com/?post_type=article&p=250187 By Bonnie Azoulay, Contributing writer

More often than not, menstruation gets a bad rap. We often hear, “Are you PMSing?” or “Do you have your period?” as insults. Because of these catch-all phrases, periods have become synonymous with moodiness and carry a harmful stigma. While you can develop mood swings before or during your period, there’s much more to this side effect than meets the eye.

What causes mood swings during your menstrual cycle?

PMS (premenstrual syndrome), which describes symptoms including mood swings and irritability, starts about a week before your period and generally subsides about four days after the first day of your period. PMS symptoms can occur up to 14 days before menstruation, which is when your body releases an egg, causing estrogen and progesterone levels to drop. This hormonal shift can cause your serotonin levels to drop and bring about feelings of sadness and irritability. According to a study published in the Journal of Women’s Health in 2011, mood swings are the most common symptom of menstruation. 

How to manage mood swings

When it comes to managing PMS mood swings, no one remedy fits all. Regulating your mood when you’re experiencing PMS symptoms is similar to how you’d regulate your mood any time of the month. Exercise, nutrition, and supplements can increase your serotonin levels, the key hormone that stabilizes your mood. 

Nutrition: Limit your caffeine intake during your period since it’s known to decrease sleep, which can  increase moodiness. According to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, calcium such as low-fat milk, yogurt, almonds, and kale have been proven to reduce fatigue and moodiness during PMS. 

Exercise: According to a 2019 study published in The Journal of Education and Health Promotion, aerobic exercise and yoga movements are effective in treating PMS symptoms, like improving mood and behavior. Any exercise that gets your heart rate up will release endorphins (body chemicals that relieve stress and pain) and may counteract the hormone changes induced by PMS. Additionally, the Office of Women’s Health encourages physical activity during your menstrual cycle to help you feel better emotionally and physically.

When should mood swings be addressed by a doctor?

Experiencing mood swings is the most common PMS symptom, according to a 2011 study published in the Journal of Women’s Health. But if you’re not feeling like yourself  for a significant amount of time after your period, then you may want to consult with your provider. There are many ways to treat symptoms of PMS including SSRIs and the combination birth control pill. 

As we mentioned, periods have been associated with mood swings, but they’re not always the source of those feelings. You deserve to get the help you need to feel like yourself. 

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Stressless Fest recap https://www.oviahealth.com/guide/247588/stressless-fest-recap-fertility/ Wed, 30 Jun 2021 13:36:19 +0000 https://www.oviahealth.com/?post_type=article&p=247588 While deciding to grow your family can be exciting, at Ovia we know that there are also many stressful and draining points along the way that may affect fertility. That’s why we hosted a virtual event all about stressing less with tips and tools to help you prioritize self-care, brought to you by our partners: Airwick, Beyond Yoga & Enfamil.

We meditated with Faith Hunter, learned about the importance of sleep with Angela Holliday-Bell, and participated in a healing, positive affirmation exercise with Leasa Wright.

Here are the most important moments from the event, hosted by Denise Albert, in case you weren’t able to attend.

A short, guided meditation session on how to help reduce stress with Faith Hunter

Breath work gives us the ability to center ourselves. Faith led us in a breathing exercise that you can do at home, here’s how:

  • Take your right hand, close your index and middle finger towards your palm
  • Take your right thumb and use it to close your right nostril 
  • Breath in through your left nostril
  • Close off your left nostril with your ring finder 
  • Release your right nostril 
  • Exhale through your right nostril
  • Inhale through your right nostril
  • Close it off
  • Exhale through your left nostril
  • Inhale through your left nostril
  • Repeat

Stress management and self-care with Dinah Eke, Amanda McKay, and Brooke Davis 

Dinah, Amanda, and Brooke discussed the importance of taking small moments in the middle of the day to be mindful. Check in with yourself: How are you feeling? Are you drinking enough water? Are you getting a little movement? Are you getting outside? Take a little time for yourself.

When it comes to practical ways to destress, there are two options: address the stress head-on or escape it through distraction.

Dinah offered some advice about the way list-making helps her de-stress. Just writing down the thoughts that are leading to stress can makes it feel more manageable. And when you just need to escape the stress, Amanda recommends distracting yourself away by getting outside, listening to a podcast, or just laying down for a moment. 

And remember, it’s OK to bring other people into the conversation. Ask for help from family and friends. Ask for flexibility from your manager.

Wellness check with Elaine Bishop

Signs that you are experiencing an amount of stress that could be damaging to your mental health:

  • Overwhelming feelings of sadness 
  • Difficulty enjoying things you used to enjoy
  • Relationship changes: are you having more trouble reading other people’s social signals? Are you declining social invitations more than usual?
  • Appetite changes: Are you experiencing significant increased or decreased appetite?
  • Substance use: Are you turning to drink more often than before? Are you developing feelings of dependence?
  • Thoughts of harming yourself 

If you are feeling any of these feelings, know that there is help. Try contacting the National Alliance on Mental Illness either by phone at: 1800-950-6264 or by email at: info@nami.org.

Tips from physician and sleep specialist, Dr. Holliday-Bell

The first step to getting better sleep is prioritizing better sleep. Better sleep helps reduce stress. Dr. Holliday-Bell outlined a few specific tips:

  • Decide on a bedtime and wake time
  • Stick to a consistent schedule (weekends count too!)
  • Create a relaxing, 30-60 min bedtime routine
  • Keep your bedroom dark, quiet, and cool
  • Master a relaxation technique (like deep breathing)

Breath work and affirmation practice with Leasa Wright 

We closed out Stressless Fest with a series of affirmations from Leasa Wright. To try and reduce stress levels, practice this at home. Close your eyes and think of a happy memory or a happy place. Then repeat out loud to yourself:

  • I live in my truth
  • I boldly and freely express myself
  • I follow my dreams
  • I welcome goodness; I welcome love 

This may feel uncomfortable at first, but after a few rounds of these affirmations, the Stressless Fest attendees felt calmer, lighter, and more confident. We hope you will too!

Sponsored by Airwick, Enfamil, and Beyond Yoga 

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Can yoga help me conceive? https://www.oviahealth.com/guide/245202/can-yoga-help-me-conceive-2/ Wed, 05 May 2021 20:29:35 +0000 https://www.oviahealth.com/?post_type=article&p=245202 While you can’t actually get pregnant during a particularly sweaty yoga class, a little yoga practice every day can help reduce stress and improve muscle strength, both of which can boost your fertility. Certain positions especially can help build important pregnancy muscles in your back, pelvic floor, and hips.

Stress and fertility

Stress interferes with fertility because when you’re experiencing chronic stressors, your brain produces more hormones like cortisol and epinephrine, which can interfere with your ovulation. More importantly, stress can impact other factors such as weight problems, sleep deprivation, and lack of sex drive. All of these can significantly interfere with fertility and make conception more difficult, which is where yoga comes in play.

Yoga and other athletic pursuits are an important part of weight and stress management, which in turn, can lead to higher fertility rates and greater chance at conceiving. The stretching and breath techniques practiced during yoga can help relieve stress by releasing endorphins, your body’s “feel-good” hormones.

Physical benefits of yoga

  • Slow your mind and release stress and tension: Practicing gentle yoga such as Hatha or Kripalu once a day, alongside other activities such as meditating, allows your body to get rid of all your daily stressors and increase wellness.
  • Strengthens your pelvic floor: These muscles are essential for pregnancy and even your sex life. Squats are a good way to help tone these integral muscles.
  • Aligns your hips, pelvis, and lower back: Positions such as bridge facilitate lower body alignment and stimulates your endocrine and immune systems.
  • Brings you closer to your partner: Yoga can wring out your insides and release emotion, helping connect and build emotional and physical strength with your partner.

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How to fall more in love with your body https://www.oviahealth.com/guide/112858/how-to-fall-more-in-love-with-your-body/ Wed, 21 Apr 2021 09:18:20 +0000 https://wp.oviahealth.com/guide/112858/how-to-fall-more-in-love-with-your-body/
by Jenna Jonaitis, Contributing writer

Feeling good and confident about your body in a world where we’re inundated with images of what we “should” look like can leave us feeling less than the magnificent beauties we are. Self love is important.

Practice self love for your body

The truth is, your genetics, ethnicity, medical conditions, and childhood experiences play a huge role in your body shape — not just what you eat and how much you exercise. So wouldn’t it be great if we could accept ourselves more and love the body we have today?

Fortunately, there are steps you can take to boost self-acceptance and self-love. These practices take time, but are incredibly worthwhile. When we feel good about ourselves, our mental and physical wellbeing improves. We also feel more confident socially and sexually.

Here are a few tips for loving and accepting your body — today and at any stage.

Try reframing

A lot of what we believe about our bodies is learned — through society, social media, and other conditioning. We don’t always have control over the messages we hear, especially the ones that were told to us as kids and adolescents. But what we do have control over, is our internal dialogue and how we frame the situation in our minds.

Reframing is a practice that can help you rework how your brain feels about your body. It works by altering your perspective and replacing negative patterns of thinking. You can do it by yourself or with the help of a therapist.

Ask questions to reframe: is there another way for me to think about a part of my body? Rather than believing my thighs are too big, I can think of them as strong. How about my lack of curves? Let me reframe my body as slender and sensual.

Talk to yourself like your best friend would

We usually act as our own harshest critics. Instead, think about what you’d say to a friend in a similar situation. If she was feeling down about her body, what uplifting words would you offer? Adopt that positive, supportive talk for yourself.

Focus on what you’re doing well

Rather than telling yourself that you aren’t making strides or that you’ll never look how you want, think about the positive steps you are taking. Whether it’s drinking more water or taking a walk with a friend, remind yourself of the little things you do that make you feel like you.

Add positive affirmations to your daily routine

Positive affirmations are statements that feed our brains healthy perspectives and mental images — ultimately boosting our confidence and the beliefs we have about ourselves. Create positive affirmations to retrain the voice inside your head. Choose a simple phrase like, “I am beautiful always,” or “My body is strong and full of wonder.”

By repeating — and believing — your affirmations throughout the day, you’ll start feeling the truth in them. Repetition is key, so post a sticky note on your bathroom mirror, say your affirmation 10 times as you prep dinner, or include the statement in your meditation.

Go beyond self-care

Find activities that center you and allow you to shower yourself with love. Whether it’s learning how to style your hair in a new way or lathering on a cleansing face mask, make your body a priority. Do things you genuinely enjoy and that show your body appreciation.

Check yourself out

While it might seem silly at first, stand in front of the mirror and notice all the things you admire. Do you love your eyes? Your curves? Your hair? After lathering on the praise, you’ll be feeling even better in your own skin.

Snap photos

On a good hair day or when you’re feeling glamorous, take fun photos of yourself. The visual reminder can be a positive way to retrain your brain to see all your beauty. Further boosting the love you have for your beautiful self. You can also look back on the photos whenever you need another boost.

Dress for comfort and confidence

Go through your closet and part ways with items that don’t fit right or that you no longer enjoy wearing. Focus on keeping clothes that make you feel confident and beautiful. When your budget allows, add to your select collection.

Scale back on scrolling

While social media has a lot of pluses, it can also have a negative impact on our self-esteem and emotional wellbeing. Replace scrolling with a healthy habit like reading a book, watching a movie, or chatting with a friend on the phone. You’ll be surprised how better you feel after less time looking at Instagram-perfected moments.

Seek healthy support

If there are people who make you feel less than beautiful, set boundaries or even consider phasing them out of your social circle. This is also a huge part of self love. While this may seem harsh, who you spend time with makes a huge impact on how you feel. Surround yourself with family and friends who make you feel lovable, worthy, and beautiful — because you are.


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